My marriage and porn

So me and my husband both watch porn and recently decided to watch porn together. We thought it would be sexy, bug we didn't take into account we both have two different ideas of good porn. Sex turned into arguing over what to watch. I thought maybe we could watch some standard porn, but he thinks just regular straight porn sucks, so he wanted to watch bdsm shit. I wasnt into it and I honestly didn't know he was. In this porn the girl was the dom guy was the sub. I asked him if he wanted me to shame him or something but he said no he just likes watching it. I wasn't into it. We both could agree with lesbian porn. Just not what kind of lesbian porn. I wanted to watch people around our age. We are 19 and 20. He wanted to watch someone around our age with and women in like her 40's. So Milf lesbian porn. I dont want to watch a 40 year Old! At this point it felt more like fighting over what Netflix show to watch for a Netflix and chill night than it did sex. It was arguing over porn. So we have decided it's best to go our separate ways with our porn. I'll watch what I like, he will watch what he likes because we both so not have the same taste in porn.