i’m 18 years old. i’m gonna be a first time mom and i am stressing the heck out. i feel like a failure already and feel like i’m getting nothing accomplished. i live in Canada so some of the things i’m about to say might be different than the American way. i went to my first ultrasound at 8 weeks. my Dr didn’t update me on anything, didn’t make me pee in a cup. didn’t tell me how far along i was, so i literally had to go back into my <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">period calendar</a> and do the math myself to find out how far along i was. he never told me what the regular heart beat was for a baby. never told me what heart beat was mine and what one was the baby’s . i had to literally ask him who’s heartbeat was who’s. then he went to go send me in for my first round of blood work at 10 weeks. he wanted me to get my blood done the day before my next appointment (which i thought was weird cuz i thought you had to wait a couple days for the test results to come in) when i got to the blood clinic they were closed.. so now i’m sitting here with no idea if my baby had any deformities or is okay, or even healthy... i’m so stressed out and i need help. i feel stupid for even asking questions or venting about this bc i feel like my Dr just assumed i should know everything as a first time mom. i feel so lost.... someone please help..