My husband tested positive for COVID about 2 weeks ago and refused to quarantine, so naturally I catch it. I’m 23 weeks pregnant, I have a toddler, and tested positive for COVID last Wednesday. Now that he’s feeling better he wants to go out golfing. I still feel like shit with the chills , sweats, migraines, muscle pain, cough, and sore throat. That doesn’t matter to him though, because he went golfing on Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, and now his friend wants him to go Wednesday. Each time he golfs he’s gone between 6-10 hours while I’m feeling like shit with a toddler. Today he was gone from 10 am - 7pm, when he said he’d be home at 4. He said he’d bring me food at least and some medicine around 5pm, so Once 6pm roles around and blames it on his dad and brother, I bitch him out through text. He’s such a selfish piece of shit. He comes home and didn’t bring me food or medicine and said “yeah, well, you didn’t answer my text.” Like, mother effer I stopped responding to keep myself from saying anything worse! The entire time he’s home he sits on the couch and doesn’t help with a single thing. He hears me struggling with my toddler and does nothing, he watches her tear my work papers up and says nothing to her. I never wanted to beat this man so badly in my life! I’m trying to calm down in the bedroom, but I honestly don’t want to be anywhere near his lazy selfish butt right now.

Advice on how to make him understand he’s being a real POS without calling him a lazy selfish POS would be great. I don’t want to ruin my daughters day tomorrow with our hostility.