I went on a date with this guy and he completely ghosted me after. My friend said she thinks I came on a wee bit strong. I was planning on hooking up that night. We ate at an outback and while we were eating I asked what his sickest fantasy is. He got kind of awkward and said he didn't know. I told him he has my consent to do WHATEVER he wants to me. I told him I have a high pain tolerance. He can choke me until I'm blue. He can hit me. I told him I actually want him to leave marks on me. Not petty shit, I want it to look like I got the shit beat out of me. I also said how I'm into knife play and blood doesn't scare me. I made sure he knew I wanted him to do as much sick shit to me as possible. He looked like this

After the date he ended up saying he doesn't really do it on the first night and he went home. I haven't heard from him in days. I thought he would have appreciated my honestly but my friend says I was a little too honest. Be honest. Was it too much or was my honesty good?