How do you know it's time to divorce?

Question

My husband and I have been going through a very rough time for the past couple months.
How do you know its time to divorce or if your marriage is just going through a hard time and is going to get better? 
I have considered calling a divorce lawyer and actually filled out a request for a consultation. Part of me wants to fight for our marriage but part of me is so drained from everything and just wants to say I'm done.

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A few months to me isn’t enough to call it quits. To me that’s time to go to couples counseling/therapy. After that and depending on what’s going on it might be time to call it.

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If you can honestly tell yourself you've done absolutely everything there is to do in order to save your relationship but nothing has changed then it is probably time.  No marriage will be 100% on the same page/perfect/fun all the time but  A few months isn't really that long to decide to call it quits or to have given time for any growth or changes you want to see.  Of course, this is all heavily dependent on what your issues are.  Abuse and cheating....I'd be out the door now.  Not caring for each others friends or having a different sort term goal of a savings plan...not really something to end a marriage over.

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I think the fact that you're debating it means you still have some fight left in you.
Only you can decide what you can or will do. The choices you make are tjose decisions. Sometimes our minds can't decide one way or the other, but the next steps we take represent the choice.
Sorry you're having hard times.

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I’m going though it right now. Once you start to question it. It’s typically time. It fucking sucks. But you can only try and fight so hard

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I've been wondering the same thing when it comes to my relationship we have been married almost 3 years and I've caught him in several lies some of which bother me, he doesn't want me to say anything to his family even when it has to do with my kids, and he's been distant for almost a year now but each time I try to tell him we need to try and fix our relationship especially for our kids he tells me he doesn't want to talk about it. So seriously how do you know when it's time to leave?

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A couple months is not long enough. Just because you are going through a hard time in your marriage doesn't always mean you file for a divorce

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I think personally- if you have to ask yourself the question ‘is it time for divorce’ then that’s it. It’s been over...

How do you know it's time to divorce?

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