I don’t want to make this too long and drawn out, but idk what to do and it’s driving me CRAZY!

Quick side notes: Besides two breakups, spouse is my middle school sweetheart. I was a terrible girlfriend 18 and under though...cheated & put myself in compromising positions plenty of times (one time is too many when it’s your soulmate, right? Let alone a few other occasions). Anyway, I’ll be 26 in a couple of weeks. I work from home & the only time I leave is to take/pick up oldest from school, occasional grocery trip, & rarely over to my parent’s home to check on my dad or pick up a specific item. I also leave for a hair appt once a month coincidently in this city where these people I’m about to reference are located. I don’t care for social media unless it’s news/business related. I don’t hang out with friends.

SO, on to the issue. I get a call one afternoon, someone immediately asks me who I am...like ummm you called me, who are YOU?! The female again calmly asked who I am...I asked what could I help her with.. I could tell she was slightly hesitant yet irritated, but she told me her boyfriend was texting someone from my phone number. So again she asked me who I am. I said are you sure it was this number? She said yes. I asked who is your boyfriend? She said (name changed) Harry.

Husband so happened to be in the shower but opened the door because he needed a towel or something, & asked who I was on the phone with. I told her to hold on and asked my hubby if he knows a Harry. He says no, what’s that about? I said I have no clue.

Walk away from the bathroom to continue talking to this girl. She keeps reiterating that someone keeps texting her man from this phone number & I repeatedly said I’m sorry, I have no idea who that is & there’s no one I could possibly think of who asked to borrow my phone for any reason. That’s the end of that.

Told hubby what she was saying & all he could do was look at me suspiciously. I’m confused myself & I knew he was going to think I really may be involved...sigh😞

Some hours later she calls back. Same questions she asked, same answers I gave. Harry was definitely present this time, cussing her out like filth in the background. I clearly heard him say he doesn’t even know who tf I am when I eventually told her my name, bc I could hear slight desperation in her voice.

Hubby calls later. He’s at work. Asks me if I heard back from the girl. Said matter of fact , I did, told him about it. Now hubby is definitely suspect.

IM SO ANGRY BECAUSE ALL I DO IS TRY TO BE A GOOD WIFE, TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS & HIM, && those two buffoons want to come & disrupt the peace in my relationship because someone is playing around in theirs😡😡😡. This was a couple days ago & hubby continues to briefly bring it up. I don’t blame him for feeling how he does, I gave him plenty of reason in the past to suspect weird ish like this but I have NO IDEA who these people are!!! I can barely handle my household let alone worry about fooling around with someone else!

Idk what do...I can’t focus to get my work done, it’s making me feel some type of way towards my husband for even thinking such, yet makes me want to cry bc I don’t know how to prove she got the wrong person...I just can’t right now, my anxiety is on 100😣