Stupid right?

So last time me and my husband went to my aunt’s house for my little cousin’s birthday I dressed “cute” and put on makeup, and my husband started getting upset saying he never sees me “try” so hard to look cute like why now and that I never dress up “cute” for him or when we go out together anymore. He made false accusations that I was trying to impress my aunt’s husband. And today, I’m wearing just leggings and a sweater.. we have family coming over, he didn’t say anything, but he saw I put on lipgloss and he said “oh you’re acting weird, you finally put something on your chapped up lips and I’ve told you so many times to do it and you do it now out of all days”. Im pregnant so he made me feel like absolute trash and I told him not to speak to me and that he’s acting dumb over nothing and he’s being toxic. I don’t understand what this man’s deal is.