My husband and I have been together for 9 years. I don't even care about having an expensive ring at all, but this one just is not exactly my style. It's a beautiful ring, and I love it because he picked it out and worked hard to be able to buy me a ring, but it's not my dream ring.

We have been married for 3 years and I haven't even got my wedding band. I have one picked out that I am in love with, and have had it picked out for a couple years, but we just haven't gotten around to buying it.

On top of wanting my wedding band, I want a new engagement ring. As much as I want one more my style, I'm even torn about getting a new one. To me, the point of an engagement ring is that he picked it out for me. He spent the time to look through rings and pick one out that he wanted me to have. Even though he wasn't able to afford much, he still spent the little bit of money he had to work hard for, to buy me that ring. I kind of feel like if I got a new one, it wouldn't have that meaning behind it.

Help?