This guy I’ve been with for 18 months. I took care of him I did everything for him. Even after he has cheated on me numerous times. Proceeded to tell me that I pushed him completely away and that I ruined our relationship. When I have done nothing wrong. He says that I am at fault because I always bitch at him. But I never bitched at him until I started catching him cheating and after he apologized and did it again and again. This man had nothing when we met 3 pairs of shoes 2 pairs of pants. A work uniform and one polo sweat suit oh and an iPhone 6 that kept breaking. I put clothes on this mans back. I put shoes on his feet. I upgraded his phone not once but 3 times. He has gone from an iPhone 6 straight to an xr to an iPhone 11 and now an iPhone 12. I put him on my credit cards to help him build his credit everything was going smooth until he began to use them to get rental cars and left me to pay them off. Covid happened and I was unable to keep up with the payments now not only is his credit bad, my credit is bad. I worked hard on that... When we met we talked about having a home of our own and starting a family. I was so busy trying to make that a reality. That I didn’t notice everything he was doing. He was literally just taking from me asking me for shit always. I began to take care of him. & Pay for everything all while trying to get us to where we had planned to be. Our credit scores were over 750 we were good. He ruined that. I had his life in order. And he fucked it up. He also got unemployment and was bringing in 700 dollars a week and BLEW IT ALL !! Now he’s sad because he’s broke and taking it out on me.

Anyways back to the original post. This man told me to leave him alone and move on last night at 11:59pm. After promising to be with me for new years and not showing up second year in a row. After leaving me to be alone on Christmas thanksgiving and all other holidays second year in a row. I literally gave this man my all and his response to me was “leave me alone you’ve pushed me away” I don’t believe that I pushed him away. I couldn’t have. All I’ve been doing is trying to be there for him. This man still has a cellphone that I pay for that he uses to cheat on me. I’m at a complete loss because I gave everything I had to make this relationship work and make it to where we planned on being. I drained my savings I gave everything to make him happy and I get repaid like this.