So. The father of my two children (2yo girl and a 3week old boy) and I have recently gotten back together after he left me at 6months pregnant. He had a really great job on a dredge, he was making good money and got a brand new nice car. I knew the reason he broke up with me is because we had a lot of fun together before I got pregnant for the second time, I was moody and bitchy and honestly really controlling, something ive been really working on, and he knew he had all the opportunity in the world to go out and be single and hook up with random girls with the job he has. He sent me money weekly and called daily. He went out and lived that life for about three months and came back depressed and when I asked him what was wrong (I’ve known him for forever and always know when somethings wrong) he ended up telling me that he didn’t realize what he had until he just wasn’t happy doing what he thought he wanted to do. He said he realized how blessed he was to have me and our children and that he cant believe he really thought that being single and doing whatever he wanted was better than coming home to us. He swears he’s never going to leave me again, he swears that he wants to be here with me and our kids and be the grown man I need him to be. We’ve been doing great so far, the man is literally my best friend and has been for 7 years. I’ve never loved anyone like I love him. The thing is I’ve had no doubts in him until my dad started talking to me sayin I’m “sad and delusional” for thinking he’s going to change.. and it made me really sad.. I’m already emotional from just having a baby three weeks ago and I’m so scared to get hurt again. My dad says he has no confidence in him and no respect for him because how could someone just leave their pregnant girlfriend and then suddenly decide to come back and want to make it work when she’s about to have the baby? Idk. I guess I just want someone to tell me that just because my dad swears he can “read” people doesn’t mean that my man can’t change and actually be the person he swears he wants to be..