Sexual compatibility

Is not being sexually compatible in any way a good reason to get a divorce? We did not have sex before we got married and while I didn’t think he was a great kisser, I figured I could get over that. We have tried toys, books, articles, and everything else we can think of; I just hate having sex with him.

He gets off within a few min, and doesn’t ever help take care of me. I’ve tried to tell him what would help me along, and he half ass tries and gives up.