I’ve tried everything

I feel like I’ve tried every birthcontrol out there. I’ve been on varying forms of birthcontrol since I was 17 (I’m 21 now), I can’t tell you how many brands of pills I’ve been on; seriously.

I’ve had the copper IUD when I was 17 and had to get it removed the same day because of pain (had it in for maybe 9 hours). Since then I’ve tried Nexplanon (never again :) it did not work for me AT ALL I cried ALL the time) and countless pills trying to figure out what works best for me. But the longer I take birthcontrol pills the crazier I seem to get. The first 3 months is the most emotional, and after that I’m just a bitch 24/7.

Me and my boyfriend have lived together for a year and a half now and he thinks it’s my own fault that me and hormonal birthcontrol don’t work because “everyone can take birthcontrol”. I think im ready to try the copper IUD now that im older, more knowledgeable, know what to expect, and I’m absolutely desperate. I’m curious if anyone has ever gone thru this before, please share your opinions.

Thanks :)