Weight after birth

With my first I lost the baby weight gradually in the first 5-6 weeks after she was born and on Monday it’ll be 3 weeks since my son was born but I’ve only lost 10lbs and that was the first few days. Nothing since. I’m not in a rush to get back to pre-baby weight but I need to loose a little something so I can fit in some of my clothes again. Currently about 30lbs over pre-baby weight. Anyone else in my boat?

Makes me feel super down about myself to be totally transparent.

I figured baby + placenta + extra fluid etc was where most of my weight gain came from. 😔