Fast forward .. this my “man”phone we’ve been together for 5years almost had our first kid together of may .. went thru his phone and saw a tinder message saying it’s for a code so I’m like damn he been on tinder ,download tinder off his phone all his info was on it log into it this what I saw .. this not the first time he’s been on tinder since being in our relationship I just let it go .. confronted him about it he got mad bc I went thru his phone while he was sleep that was his main concern .. then his excuse was his friend told him about how he could get money from girls on that app

Edit: this was his response after I confronted him about it, he said Im always looking for a reason to jeopardize our relationship but shit if you have a history of doing things like that of course I’m gone be on that ass to make sure you ain’t doing shit behind my back .. I’m kinda over it at this point I wish we could be together as a family bc I really do love him as a person but he doesn’t respect me or our relationship if he keeps texting other girls on social media