Talking stage vs Valentine’s Day?

This is my first Valentine’s season in the dating scene and I’m 21. I’ve been talking to a few guys since June but none longer than a month or so apart from my ex. Now I’m talking to two good guys and my ex (that I was head over heels for) that dumped me harshly who reconnected with me this weekend. Is it weird that I kinda expect one guy to finally step up? I’ve never been in an official relationship but I’d really like it to happen soon. I feel like it will be awkward if nothing happens. In a way I’d like to skip February cause I know it’s a lot of pressure on guys too. Has anyone been dating around but single for Valentine’s Day? My anxiety is showing:) if I had more dating experience I wouldn’t have an issue asking for an exclusive relationship. My dating style is pretty submissive ever since I had to pursue my ex a lot which sucked😩