I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and three months. For the first time, I thought he was the one. I was supposed to move in May when I graduated grad school, we planned on getting married the next summer and starting a family. For some reason, in late October, I just couldn't picture a future anymore. I couldn't picture moving in. We are so compatible & he's by far the healthiest relationship I've ever been in. We have communications issue and there is zero sexual connection on my end. I know those are things that could probably be worked on, but I have this strong gut feeling that this is not a forever thing. He is devesated and is convinced I'm making a giant mistake. I feel so confused and sad because I'm still in love with him but I went with my gut.