My stepdad sexually assaulted me when I was 16 while he was intoxicated and attempted to intoxicate me. I told my mom, she’s said she’d handle it. 2 years later and he’s still living with us.. I have a boyfriend, for my 18th birthday in a few weeks I wanted him to sleepover, he’s my only friend. (Due to having to babysit my 2 younger siblings 24/7 and my mom not allowing me to get out much I don’t really have friends..) I wanted him to sleepover because I planned on us watching tons of movies on my projector that we agreed on, we were going to order food, get snacks, tons of blankets, pillows, do facials, bake snacks off of tiktok etc. This will all be in the living room, in the open. We would also sleep in the living room. I wouldn’t disrespect my mom by doing anything inappropriate and vice versa w/ my bf (he’s scared of my mom lol) the most we’ve done in my house is kiss. Now, this is the weird part. My stepdad always brings up sexual stuff. While mentioning I wanted my bf to sleepover my stepdad jumps in and says to my mom “you know what’s going to happen””she’s going to be in this house doing stuff with that boy” “your soft, my mom would have never allowed that” “they already be tryna sneak and kiss” “they aren’t going to just watch movies, I use to be their age once” “he wants what’s in her pants” (she snapped on him at this point) but no matter what the situation is, as long as it involves my boyfriend my stepdad will always mention us being sexual, and how he “use to be our age once”. My mom trusts me, I literally tell her everything. I would never disrespect her by having sex in her house and I even told my bf if that was what he had in mind then he won’t be able to sleepover. BUT yet again my stepdad and his crap. To me that’s weird, the way he says it, his body movement, etc is gross. It’s like he wants that to happen so he can find us or something. I understand boys are very ho-rny, I KNOW but I could never disrespect my mom or my home. This isn’t just a “dad” looking out for his “daughter” situation.. this is a bit too much.