I need some advice
I been with my husband for 6 years and we have been married since October of last year. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter and I am currently 29 weeks pregnant with our son.
I hope I don’t sound crazy saying all this lol
My husband is not the most affectionate and me I am super affectionate. He doesn’t just kiss or hug me I have to ask for it. He doesn’t call me me beautiful or call me a cute name and I pipe his head up all the time. When we have sex it’s the same all the time and he doesnt kiss me. It’s like he just sticks his dick in...cum... and that’s it. He would tell me he is horny and I would jump to please him but if I tell him I’m in the mood I get nothing from him..It’s like a one ways street with him... I pleasure him and he doesn’t pleasure me, doesn’t kiss me during sex anything. No role play to start it off it’s just so dull. We also don’t have sex like we use to and we use to have sex like 5 days out of the week now it’s like 1 day a week if I’m lucky and I be soooo horny pleasuring myself because I don’t feel like begging for sex. I always initiate sex and I’m bored of it but if I don’t initiate I don’t get any.
I would try to do things to spice it up but it just feel awkward because I get no reaction from him. I don’t feel sexy around him and me being pregnant at the moment I fall in these depression episodes because Over time I have realized that our relationship is just so unseasoned and I want more.
I have talk to him so many times about how I feel and what I want but it like we would talk about it...he would listen... Show me the love I want for like a day or two just to shut me up then It’s like we never had the conversation.
He told me that the reason he doesn’t show me the love and affection I want is because he feels weird and it doesn’t come naturally to him and I don’t understand because if you love someone the love and affection should just be natural. Sometime I think to myself I’m not the one for him and there is a women out there just like him. Who doesn’t want the kissing the hugs all the pleasure. Idk
I have to die down all the love And affection I have to be with this man and I just feel depressed sometimes because I have so much love to give.
I love this man so much and we have built a family together. He is a good man. Currently I am a fulltime stay at home mom. He Takes care of my daughter and I financially through these times of covid and me not having a job and being pregnant. Everyone looking in say I have this cookie cutter life style but why do I feel the opposite???
I feel myself drifting away from him.
someone give me some advice
Please