Do people have a right to be mad at you for “hiding” a pregnancy? Read description.

So we live 1,500 miles away from family, have for 3 years now. Family & people back home are extremely toxic, that’s why we left. I know as soon as they get wind that I’m pregnant again it’s going to be nothing but snarky comments, fake people wanting to be my friend just because they’re nosy, & drama.

When I got pregnant with my first my grandmother told me I was a whore (even though my husband was the 2nd person I’ve ever slept with & he is the father). My mom just straight up yelled at me even though I was 20 & living in a house that my husband & I bought by ourselves. People i hadn’t talked to in YEARS all of the sudden started sending me friend requests & only wanted to talk about pregnancy stuff & dropped off the face of the planet once she was born.

So I’m not telling anyone back home. Not a soul. They won’t know until baby is born.

It’s not that I’m not excited, I’m not hiding the pregnancy out of shame I just want to enjoy my pregnancy without all the drama & negativity.

Friends here who see me everyday & won’t be able to hide the bump from already know my situation & don’t know any of my family back home in the first place, so I’m not really worried about being outed. I mean even if I am at least I had however long to enjoy being pregnant.

But I did have one person say, “well I would be upset if my family hid that from me”. My response was “Okay? But it’s not their business. Just because I’m pregnant doesn’t mean people are obligated to know that family or not.”

Am I wrong??