My husband and I were married June 6th of this year and the day we got married was also our 6 year anniversary since we started dating! I noticed for about a week that he was slowly changing. He was not the man I married. I know that married couples also will go through different stages but I just knew something was up. Wednesday morning before I started getting ready for work I looked at his phone to see when his family was starting to arrive for Thanksgiving. However, when I opened his text messaging app there were several I miss you messages, I can't wait to see, I get off at 9:30 tonight but I'm telling my wife its later...he was very smart about it and put the girls name under a guys name. I looked up the number on Facebook and realized it was a girl he works with. He told me that he was not happy and that she made him happy. When I threatened to leave he started crying and told me that he was happy with me and did not want her anymore. We are trying to work things out because we have been together forever and I honestly don't know what I would do without him. I am still hurt and I can not help but think about it all day. I can't help to think if he is seeing her at work and what could possibly be going on. What would you do in my case? I love him and I want things to work out I just don't know if he truly does. He says he does but he also told me he was happy with me when he clearly wasn't. Any advice would help me out...