Someone told my husband I’m not attracted to him.

Hi ladies, I’m a little lost on how to handle this. I’m almost 32 weeks pregnant and I haven’t been attracted to my husband in quite sometime now. Though part of it is loss of physical attraction, I’m just not attracted to the person he is anymore. I don’t feel like I know him at all anymore. A lot of what he says or does I find repulsive. He’s constantly talking about my death or instances where he may have to cut my baby out of me to save his life if I were dying, he makes remarks and is overly mean to me, he’s made some terrible comments towards me and about things he could do that would harm my baby.

Granted I am not as physically attracted to him as I was a year ago, he has put on a lot of weight and doesn’t take care of himself. I kinda miss how gentle and respectful he was in bed, I miss feeling small because even though I’m smaller than him, he can’t lift me anymore since he stopped regularly working out and l have put on about 25 pound in the pregnancy.

Anyways, I confided in someone who I didn’t think would say anything to him as I didn’t want to hurt his feelings, and she told her husband. Of course things got misconstrued and all her husband said to mine is that I’m not having sex with him because I’m not physically attracted to him anymore. When in reality it due to this unknown infection I’ve had since 8 weeks in pregnancy causing pain and my drive is low.

He didn’t tell me his friend told him. He told his sister. I don’t know what to do now and I can’t retract it because I know it will be worse if I just say none of it was true, I guess I’m just confused on how to go about handling this. I’ve previously told him I feel like I don’t know him anymore and I’m not attracted to his personality lately, but he didn’t really react much and has only gotten worse.

Please help.