I'm only 10 and 3, and we've just told a couple of friends (as I couldn't have a beer with dinner). They were all excited for us, but the first thing out of their mouths is "were you trying?" and "was it planned?".

I'm not offended, and they are genuinely happy for us, but do these sort of questions strike anyone else as extremely rude?! I mean, wow, NOT their business. I certainly wouldn't ask someone if they'd been having unprotected sex for a while, or if the baby was an accident, which those sort of questions imply!!

Any opinions?