My boyfriend and I recently got into a big argument about the way he talked to me and treated me. Multiple friends told me they don’t like the way he talks to me etc. I felt like I had no other way of changing his behavior because when I brought it up he said that I treat him badly as well, and that I’m always the victim and never accept when I’m wrong. I told him I wanted to break up and he begged me not to so I stayed and he seemed sorry at the time but it later seemed like it was my fault and I was evil for trying to break up with him. He now constantly asks me if I love him, care about him, if I’m sure I want to be with him etc. I’m questioning my own judgement so I just need an outside opinion. I feel like something is wrong and I don’t know what. Please help I don’t know what to do!