Helpp ! Desperately need advice

Soo im in a newer relationship . hes amazin . truly makes me happy .

but i desperately need some advice

- info on me -

Im 23 will be 24 in may

I have a 5 yr old daughter with my ex husband .

I also have a 4 month old with my fiance .

Hes 24

What i need advice on is sex .

Before and throughout my whole pregnancy he was like a caveman . couldn't get enough of it . regardless of if we were sensually makin love or if we were bangin like shutters in a huricane . i could kiss him and the passion was so intense . the way hed touch me was intense . he opened a whole new world for me sexually . i tried to open up to satisfy him but i feel like its not enough ...

Abyways we moved in together shortly after my second daughter was born . 09/2020

It used to be his sex drive was trhough the roof . i could barely keep up ...

But now my sex drive is so high but it seems like he rarely ever wants to have sex in any way .

I try to start it ive randomly sucked his dick but usually he finishes that way and that's the end .

I feel horrible for feelin like i do ...

But it some times feels like he creates excuses just to not have sex .

I feel like its a physical problem ...

I feel like i dont look good enough for him to want to have sex ...

...

I tried so hard to have confidence in myself . but i surely lacked in that dept.

Ive always been bigger

Im 5'8" and bout 250 lbs.

When he and i met i was a little bigger but i was eatin right and workin out

By time we got serious i was bout 230 .

The stress and guilt caused me to gain weight among a few other thangs . i jumped quite quickly back up to 250 - 260 area . at three time he he didnt seem to mind ... But now i feel like when he looks at me hes grossed out . he assuresme hes not . but his sex drive is a fraction of what it used to be ...

So i need help ! Pleasee ,

Why did his sex drive plummet ? And mine sky rocketed ? ( Ever since my pregnancy its been through the roof )

Is it the weight gain ?

Is it havin a baby ?

Is he just not attracted to me sexually ?

Does he just not like the sex ... ?

How do i talk to him bout it ? ( withouth fightin or upsettin him )

What do i say ?

What do i ask him ?

Should i even talk to him ?

I feel so ... Insecure and hopeless ...

I don't really know what to do ...

Thank you in advanced ...