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Earlier today at 5:55 am my husband received a txt message from his coworker but when you opened the txt a picture of a girl and different name come up I called her and then she txt me this I don’t even know why I txt her but this is what she replied back
What should I say I am so lost in words

Edit; I have not replied back to her but she just txt me saying if I am okay

My husband txt me this 
That’s what I’m saying is that yes u have forgiven me time n time again and still are with me but that has never gone away.. no matter what if I am or if I’m not ur mindset is still the same you always believe I am lieing that not once am I actually being honest with u n I know that my fault n I hate myself for that I can’t change the past but I’ve also been here by ur side trying to be better regardless of how u feel about me.. I know u love me like no other without a doubt but I also know u dnt trust me whatsoever and I don’t know if u ever will.. I could only wish I never made the mistakes I did and I will forever regret it and have to live with it.. it’s hard for me to look u in the eyes knowing that I’ve lost your trust and it’s been years living like this.. I don’t want to lose u I hate that I created this and I’m sorry I’ve made your mindset towards me what it is.. I hate myself for it so bad.. I love u ur my love of my life no one has ever loved me the way u have or will... I don’t want u to fall out of love for me like u have over the years.. u have a hate for me that I can see everyday and I don’t blame you because it’s all my fault but at the end of the day u have to believe Ionly wish we can be happy again.. I dnt know what to do I’m so stressed and my mind is everywhere I just want us to be good and I fucked that up a long time ago that I dnt know when it will ever be the same as before all the bullshit.. I just wish u truly knew you are my love I can’t imagine myself without you.
At this point I blame myself that he has continued to do this because I had continued to forgive him because I don’t want my kids to grow without a father he is the best father he can be for our kids but as a husband he is amazing but the cheating can’t stop and I can’t continue with this broken cycle I need to get away from him and I just don’t know to brake this to my kids I know they will be really hurt.

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Don’t say anything to her. Deal with your husband, the one who is supposed to be loyal to you.

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Thank her, and let that be the last of the communication with her.

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At least she was respectful about it! I would just ignore her though and let your husband take all the heat! Hes the one that's dead wrong in this situation

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I agree with the other comment. No need to respond to her. Clearly your husband must have said or done something to make it seem like he was available. Contacting her in some way. Yes, a little odd she’d want you to reactivate his account so she could block him. That’s beside the point. Your issue should lie with him. Sorry.

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Don’t say anything to her. Thank her for being real with you. Thank her for being respectful to you. 
Deal with the person who was supposed to be committed to you and was instead being sneaky as a mother fucker.

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People keep saying to consult your husband but it sounds sketch. If he had bad intentions or was planning to cheat he won't tell you that. 
Find her, let her provide evidence/receipts, gather said evidence and make your decision on what you wanna do. Never ever give anyone room to manipulate you.

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The fact that he had her saved her as a co-worker tells you absolutely all you need to know

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Sounds like she might be telling the truth and honestly that’s probably as far as you’re going to get because he’s going to just keep lying. I would leave her alone at this point and decide what you’re going to do with your husband.

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The bottom line is your husbands in the wrong. And whether this is the first time or multiple times he has contacted women I can guarantee you it’s probably not the only time. Whether he is contacting them on tinder or any other dating app, the bottom line is your husband is sketchy as hell. Whether he is engaged in actual intercourse or ask for nudes or whatever else it may be, your husband is cheating on you and you know darn well, but this probably is not the first time and that’s probably not the only woman he’s talking to. Unfortunately it’s a game of numbers online. Men talk to multiple women at the same time and what one won’t do, another will. Whether he’s having online sex with them or he is meeting up with them or either people from work that he’s messing with or people he met at a bar or whatever it may be, I think it’s either time for you to walk away or actually now it is time for you to walk away I think you are beyond therapy because the only one who wants to stay in a relationship as you. He’s clearly done with the relationship because he’s looking for other options. I don’t know how long you’ve been married I don’t know if you have kids, but he’s already checked out of the relationship and the only one who wants to stay and save it as you, if you want to work on the relationship he would’ve done so instead of seeking attention or affection elsewhere. At this point even counseling, the only reason he would want to say or do anything is because he got caught, he wasn’t feeling guilty when he was doing things he only feels guilty now if he does apologize because he got caught. Take it from the woman who stayed, after being cheated on, and he continue to do so, don’t tolerate the bullshit, know your worth and know that you deserve better than that. I can guarantee you this is not the first time he’s done this. Deactivating accounts or blocking him from using the Internet, or whatever else treating him like a child is only gonna make him want to do things even more. It’s like a child who wants to touch the hot stove and you tell them don’t touch it because it’s hot, what does he wanna do touch the stove and then he won’t learn until he gets burned. He’s already gotten burned, and that’s what you’re dealing with now he got caught. You deserve better than a man who doesn’t value you or the relationship and would rather cheat. Unfortunately sex is so freely given, whether it is online, whether it is somebody in the office or someone he met casually in a grocery store anywhere else, online you can be anybody you want to be, we can fulfill fantasies, you can be a single as you wanna be, you can be a player, that you were down deep when you were in high school and college, or you can fulfill those things that you never got to fulfill because you were in a relationship when you got in young, it’s an escape from reality, instead of being each other‘s escape from reality is escaping elsewhere to other women. You deserve so much better. If he honestly wanted to fix the relationship you guys would’ve had that discussion instead he decided to find comfort or escape from reality or attention or affection elsewhere. You know the type of man he is, now like in Scooby Doo the mask has been revealed who is down deep. He’s not the person that you thought he was in the beginning, you have lost trust in him, and once trust is gone, you will second out and be paranoid and be overthinking every single thing he says and does. Do you want to live feeling that way constantly wondering if he really is with who he says he is with is he really working late, is he really on the phone with who he says he’s on the phone with, you being paranoid and overthinking and feeling horrible, it’s gonna eat away at you, and it’s not healthy and you need to be in a healthy environment where you feel safe and you no longer feel safe. Because you don’t know who your husband is, you’re in the state of limbo of nothing feeling real, you had the floor yanked out from underneath you, I’ve been there trust me. And all you want is for everything to go back to normal and normal is gone. Everything has changed. And nothing will ever be the same. Because in the back of your mind even if you forgive your husband, or you go to counseling, you will still always have it in the back of your mind what he did and you will be thinking about it over and over again and all the what if‘s and what could’ve happened. Even if he didn’t have sex with this girl, it doesn’t mean he didn’t have sex with someone else but she’s the one who stopped it from going further not him. She made him feel validated, she made him feel like a man, she made him feel strong and appreciated and everything was exciting and new and how things were when you first met, unfortunately in relationship so long or you’ve been together, things do get boring or routine or convenient or comfortable, you stop making the effort once you have the partner, unfortunately a lot of times especially when you have kids the relationship takes a back burner, life happens, in-laws happen, work happens, stress happens, and unfortunately you know we stop having date nights, we stop making each other the priority instead the kids come first or work or health issues or whatever else. Honestly by staying you’re just delaying the inevitable. I would seek some counseling yourself, I would take some time to heal, I would not want to be around your husband right now, if he just stay in the house I would make him sleep on the couch, I couldn’t look at him the same, he’s no longer the strong brave provider or whoever he wants was to you. He’s not the same person, he never will be again no matter what he does because that will always be in the back of your mind. And every time you have a fight, you’ll throw it in his face, and eventually he’s going to get tired of hearing that and he’s gonna want out even though he was the bad guy he’s gonna make you the bad guy. I truly feel for you right now.  I have been there trust me, I have been there so many freaking times, and always giving people the benefit of the doubt and in the end of course things ended, I just want to wrap my arms around you and we have some solace to you, I’m going to leave some phone numbers of places you can call, and talk it out, scream yell whatever you need to do. I hope in time you will find healing and find peace.

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What account is she referring to? Is he on a dating app or something? I’d get more info from her but politely, the problem is really with him but I’d want to know what he’s up to.

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