Hair Everywhere 😩

 I have lots of hair on my body. Its blond so it doesnt show up alot but im still insecure about it. I have lots on my arms but ive dealt with that so long it doesnt bother me nor my boyfriend i dont think. I have hair on my stomach too and it makes it look like my stomach is glistening in sun sometimes lol but its embarrasing because i always thought guys were the only one with that. Then i get hair on my butt. Everytime my boyfriend wants to grab my bare ass i feel really scared he wont like it. I do shave it which it helps and then i use lotion on it to make it smoother which had been helping ALOT. But i still feel like he doesnt like my body cause of it... Idk what to think.. Help?