when i first met my boyfriend, he moved very quickly and was talking about settling down (he told me that if that wasn’t what i was wanting then he’d give me an out), and having kids. and he specifically said he would want two or three kids with me and then idk something happened and now that’s all off the table. he’s told me he’s not sure we’re gonna work out yet won’t let me have that out that he extended. he no longer wants kids specifically with me. and idk where things went wrong i’m not sure if it’s a phase but i lay down at night and it’s always heavy on my mind like idk what i did wrong or where i went wrong

i dont know what’s changed and i dont know how to ask him that without getting defensive and upset