i love her to death, i love hanging out with her, but here’s the problem: i’m not straight or cis and she’s slightly homophobic and transphobic. she’s kind of a “holier than thou” christian. she’s not super preachy but does point out to other christians “i support you bUt THe BIbLe SaYS”.

WHICH IS BULLSHIT. the bible never says gays go to hell, just that it’s unsanitary to fuck a guy in the ass! which is true if you don’t know how to do it right! and if we’re judging people based solely on the laws of leviticus, everyone is going to hell.

anyways, i realized that i give no shits about gender whatsoever. guys? handsome. girls? beautiful. enbies? gorgeous. she/her? fine. he/him? sure. they/them? fuck yeah. labels? poly/pan/bi/omni/nonbinary/genderqueer/agender/gender fluid, i have no preference on labels. i want to be out but still hide it from my homophobic family and the only platform i can do that is here/instagram. should i block her? i feel like it’d be selfish but i don’t want her telling anyone.