size matters?

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i just broke up with a new boyfriend because we finally had sex and his d*ck was small... am i a bad person? i mean i dont want to waste his time and i cant be with someone forever when the sex is this bad. amd i just supposed to fake it the rest of my life?? i feel so bad 
please tell me you guys would have done that too!!

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No I wouldn’t say you were a bad person. I would just say a immature person that cares about the wrong things.

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This might not be a popular opinion but sex is so important in a relationship and if you feel that the size is important to you then do what you need to 🤷🏻‍♀️ personally if the sex was bad and unsatisfying I wouldn’t be able to do it. I just wouldn’t tell him that’s why you wanted to end it.

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Yeah kinda. You could have given it a proper chance.

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You need to search for a relationship that makes good for you. You are not immature, not selfish. You just know what you want. Don't feel bad just walk away and don't tell the guy he has a small dick.

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It's actually kinda up to you what's important to you. 
I don't like small dick shaming,(and I don't really think you are doing that?) but I like small dicks... so... 
There are people out there who would appreciate him. And there are people out there with bigass dicks that I may not be that into & you can have em. 
Really, we decide what's important to us in a relationship and what kind of relationships we want to have.

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If you're not feeling it then you're not feeling it.  I think you're just a person who knows what she wants.

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Him having a small d*ck probably wasn’t the ONLY reason, if the sex overall was bad, then the sex was bad. I have friends who have been with men who had small members but they knew how to satisfy a woman in bed. If someone doesn’t even care if you’re satisfied in bed, then you don’t need to force yourself to stay him🤷🏾‍♀️ you don’t owe him anything. Sex is important to some people and not important to others, maybe you two just weren’t compatible

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No you aren’t a bad person and no you aren’t supposed to take it the rest of your life.

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Honestly I’m proud of you , it would have got frustrating over time and you might have thoughts of cheating because he can’t please you so great choice

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No you’re not a bad person or immature because you know what you want and need. Life is too short for bad sex. If you didn’t enjoy it and know you won’t in the future, the smart thing is to break it off (which you rightfully did). You don’t need to settle for being unsatisfied because the guy “has a good heart”. You don’t need to stroke anyone’s ego or forget your own pleasure so he can feel good about himself. What kind of miserable shit is that, right? Don’t listen to the people telling you that what you did was wrong, I bet they wouldn’t settle for a guy that’s bad in bed just cause he’s nice or they’re too scared to be honest. If they wanna settle for bad sex, that’s fine but they can leave the rest of us alone. Keep doing you.

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