Would you get your husband who your separating from a Valentines Day gift?

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About  two weeks ago husband and I started discussing separation due to his constant infidelity. I want to remain friends because our children need to see us working together but also want to be clear being friends is my only intention. Would a simple gift be misleading? Would it be expected?

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He cheated and you want to buy him a gift? No.

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If you are separated and intending to divorce then absolutely not lol. If you’re separated, as in taking time apart with intentions on reconciling, then sure.

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Don't do that. Yes it is misleading.

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Yall killing me. Did you read your first sentence. Me and my hisband are seperating due to INFIDELITY. He ruining your marriage and you asking....... should i get the man a gift🥺🧐🤔😷

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I think there are other occasions where you can get him a gift for co-parenting/civility reasons and Valentine’s Day isn’t one of them. Maybe his birthday or Father’s Day...but since he cheated I wouldn’t be getting him anything!!

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I think a gift strictly from the kids is a good idea. That’s a good step towards co parenting.

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No I wouldn’t you are separating due to him cheating why would you buy a gift. 
If it was a birthday something small from the kids but other then that absolutely not very misleading

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I have seen where people who are separated or divorced give each other Valentine’s presents to show their kids there is still a mutual respect or love. Think since you’re still in the process instead of you giving him the gift have the kids give him a gift you help them make or buy. This way they can still see that mutual respect. I think you’re on the right track to coparenting! Well done!!

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Shit I don’t even get the husband I love very much a gift 😂 just the kiddos 🤷‍♀️

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I would honestly ask the kids if they want to give their dad a card and help them make it. You don’t need to get him anything. I think it would just be nice if you helped your kids make something for their dad

Would you get your husband who your separating from a Valentines Day gift?

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