Lately I’ve noticed for the past several months my desire to have sex has decreased. I’ve been working since the beginning of the pandemic and my partner works from home. I work in the health care field dealing with covid and it hasn’t been easy. I’m overwhelmed drained and exhausted. I work 12 hours at work 4 days a week. But I when i get off of work I feel like my day is not over because I’m cooking trying to straighten up. I did laundry by myself a couple of days ago and the laundry was piled high. My partner doesn’t cook or do laundry but he will clean once in a while. I told him plenty of times I can use a bit more help so that way I won’t be so tired and I Would be in the mood to have sex.

He still hasn’t done anything to change. He will tell me that we use to have sex all the time.

Well a lot has changed. I moved in with him but at times he makes me feel like “The Help.” Am I wrong for feeling the way I feel. Am I being selfish. He swears I don’t do anything at work.

I wish he can just take a walk in my shoes so he can finally understand how I feel.😢