I am 4w5d and I am in my friends wedding in June. We are currently planning the bachelorette party out of state. I will be about 15w. My husband said I shouldn’t go because it will just be late nights and bars. I don’t know what to do because I know I will be miserable but I am very superstitious and don’t want to tell anyone until I’m past 12w. Which only be 3 weeks until the party. It is 3 nights. I don’t want the bride to be mad at me, but I think I’ll be uncomfortable. I want to go and be there for her, but I’m pregnant. I’m so stressed about this.