Grandma spoiling

So I have three kids one of which is my current boyfriends. Well his mom likes to buy the baby stuff but never includes my other children and it honestly upsets me that only one kid is getting things because the other ones notice. And I have to explain over and over to them that she isn’t their grandma. Is there something any of you ladies think I can do? I don’t want to be mean but I want to tell her not to buy things for baby if she can’t the other kids.

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I’d tell her that it’d be nice if she included the other kids, but if she can’t then save it for birthdays or Christmas

Mr

Mr • Jan 29, 2021
Definitely this.

La

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I completely understand where you are coming from. Technically she really doesn’t have to buy gifts for your kids but I still think it’s rude of her not to even if it’s something small. I would have your boyfriend talk to her, hopefully he is on the same page as you about this. Unless it’s a birthday gift if I buy something for one of my nephews or niece I always make sure to get them all something. I don’t want to make the others feel left out or jealous because I only got something for one of them and not the others.

Ki

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Girl stop. It comes with having different babydaddies. He is your BF not husband. She can do for her grandbaby. You buy stuff for your other kids or ask their daddies. You wildin

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I think that she doesnt hve to buy for your kids. But she can give her grandkid stuff more discreetly.