PCM help!!! Irregular periods

Li
How do you go about getting the ball going on having the PCM help you with TTC. 
I have been off BC since June and they just say they have to wait until after a year. Well that is stupid because I feel like they are telling me when I can get help. I been having irregular periods ever since I got off BC. I am on cycle day 44 and 9 days late. BFN blood test and then they told me to call when I make it to 60 days. 
WTF! 
I am frustrated because this is so unlike me. I have irregular periods but it's +-3 days not 9 and counting.