I feel like such a bitch talking about this but oh my god. This guy is honestly so sweet, but the date he took me on was just wtf. I had met a guy online. We had been talking for a few days and he asks me on a date. I say okay and he says he will pick me up. We go out today and it was like 12pm, which I do think it a bit if a strange time to have a date, but it's whatever. We are driving and pull up ata house. I know it's stupid to go into a house with a guy I barely know and I could have been killed but after that date I wanted to die. He took me.... To his grandmothers 95th birthday party for a date..... I met a lot of his family. He introduced me as a friend and stuff like that, but like wtf. It was some family and a lot of elderly people. I was mortified and wanted to die. It was just awful and when it was time to sing happy birthday, do you know that awkward moment if you've ever worked at a restaurant, had to sing happy birthday and didn't know the persons name. That's what happened. His family was nice and everything but I had been talking to the guy for less than a week and this is the date he brings me on?! The family starts doing karaoke and he has me get up there and sing don't stop believing with him and I wanted my life to just end. He took me home after the party and said he had so much fun and hopes to hang out again soon. This guy was so nice. But wtf kind of date is that. Oh my god!

Edit: Okay so people thinking I have high expectations or that I'm over dramatic. I had been talking to this guy for less than a week. I shouldn't have been meeting his family that soon. My expectations aren't high. If he wanted to go to the park for a date that would have been fine. It has nothing to do with money. Maybe if we had been together for like months, that would be totally fine, but for a first date? No that is so weird. A first date is supposed to be to get to know someone anyway so how am I supposed to get to know you at your grandmothers 95th birthday, with your family asking me a million. It was very uncomfortable. Hes a good guy but I found the whole thing weird.

Update: So I did talk to him. I'm not the type to just ghost someone unless you give me a really good reason too. I just said I was very awkward and he was very apologetic. Honestly, based on things his family told me he doesn't seem to really go on dates that often so maybe he thought it was a good idea lmao. He told me to pick wherever I wanted to go on a date and he will take me so we are just going somewhere to eat this weekend. If it does work out this will be a funny story we can laugh at one day lol