Is it rude?

Hailey
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now and he picked me up tonight for a movie date 5 minutes before the movie started (I live 15-20 minutes away from the theater) and then told me "c'mon we gotta go" when he picked me up. Then he decided to speed down the road 65-70mph to get to the movie on time. On the way there we go over a dam and he decided to turn the headlights off for a few seconds while in the dam because he thought it would be funny. So am I wrong or is he being rude?