So this might be kind of odd but im 19 and have only orgasmed twice from using my fingers. I’m a virgin too and have never been in any kind of long-term relationship. I usually use the shower head to get off because I don’t have a vibrator or dildo or anything, but I really want to be able to orgasm with my fingers... I guess the problem is that I get tired too easily and then I’m turned off. I just feel bad at it.

Also I don’t watch porn because I’m paranoid that my parents have porn protecting devices installed on any technology in the house, including my phone... i would just be scared of my parents knowing that I watch porn. I’ve just never really talked about this kind of stuff with them and it would be awkward.

Any advice?