Losing interest in SO?

Question

Is this normal? I felt this way right before I got pregnant. But now it feels like since I've gotten pregnant its gotten so much worse. Our conception date was on our honeymoon and I know that the first year of marriage is supposedly the hardest. I do love him. I love him very much. But I'm not IN love with him. It's not that I don't want to be. I'm just not.. It's horribly stressful and for the time being we are separated hoping space with give some type of relief. I'm really hoping it changes once our son gets here but I guess only time can tell. Anyone ever experienced this? It makes me feel so horrible. Definitely feeling like a shitty person.. :(

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I haven't experienced this per say, but some days marriage is hard. Being "in love" isn't a feeling, it's a daily choice. People don't always tell you that, and that's hard but it's totally worth the effort. Just remember some days we feel mad or feel glad or feel angry, those things don't change "love," love is what you do for each other and that is super important right now. Being pregnant is a team effort (or much better that way)! Also remember that wanting sex or feeling attraction isn't love- especially during crazy hormonal pregnant days- so sometimes showing love can be harder and less fun. It's a lifestyle and I hope it gets better for yall. Don't feel bad! It's hard, but it's worth it on the good days so don't give up.

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Don't feel crappy it happens.. I went through it with my husband and I had to find a way to put the spark back. I kept feeling we were such best friends that he stopped being my husband and I wasn't interested in the same way.... I recommend having a romantic date and some sexy conversation and try to remember the man you fell in love with.

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If this is your first trimester than it is very normal to feel this way. I felt the exact same way in my first trimester and even regretted being pregnant.. It's no funny how the hormones affect us. It got so bad at one stage my family had to try and talk some sense into me. Well anyways after I entered the second trimester it got so so much better and the love was back and I even laughed at how bitchy I was in the first. Love him more than ever now in my third. So just give it time and try as hard as possible to stay positive because it is most likely your hormones.

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It happened to me with our first. Luckily he never stopped persuing me otherwise it would have been the biggest mistake of my life.

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Pray, and remember ppl give you opinions based on their experience NOT FACTS. Some may be pregnancy emotions some maybe reality emotions.. Don't search through ppl look for God to get the answer u need.

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Being pregnant doesn't help at all. I'm so infatuated with my husband. But the beginning of me pregnancy I wondered if I even loved him. I hated being touched and everything annoyed me. I hated it. When I feel that way I always try to do little acts of kindness for him. I'll make him his favorite snack. Or his favorite cake. Or I'll pick him up his favorite candy bar while I'm at the store. It never has to be something big. And for some reason that always helps me. And then he will start doing stuff like that too. Like stopping on his way home from work and picking me a bouquet of windflowers because I love them.

Losing interest in SO?

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