When did you stop worrying

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And feel comfortable telling people about your rainbow? I'm 6+2 and constantly wondering if any twinge or cramp is the signal of another loss. Does that worry go away?
Saw my endocrinologist earlier this week, and he was very positive and optimistic. Seeing a high risk OB in a few days... I just can't bring myself to plan a nursery or think about names yet.  Trying to stay in the moment.

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I’ve had 2 miscarriages both at 13 weeks. First time we were waiting to announce and then suffered in silence. Second time I told everyone immediately because we needed emotional support and because we thought the chances of another mc were small. Turns out having to tell everyone was just as devastating as suffering in silence. So I’m currently 8 weeks pregnant and not telling anyone until we make it past week 13 - and definitely not planning to hold this baby until we make it to the 3rd trimester.

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I've had two miscarriages both at 12 weeks and one rainbow baby in between those. This time I'm waiting til 13 weeks to tell most people, but we've started telling our support system, close friends and our parents. I will feel a huge relief once we get to 13 weeks. I have been very open about both my miscarriages. The first one we had already announced and miscarried the next week. But the worry was in the back of my head the entire pregnancy of my rainbow baby until she was in my arms and my husband said the same thing.

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I never stopped worrying..but I also get anxiety sometimes

When did you stop worrying

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