I'm a SAHM of two boys and currently 12 weeks pregnant.

My husband has been really harsh towards me. He seriously bitched me out for not putting 2 enchiladas on his plate because his mom pushed me aside and already had him a plate of 4 enchiladas. My ultrasound was yesterday and I was so excited but than this happened and I didn't here the end of it.

I usually even talk a lot to my Dr because she's amazing and we have so much in common but I was just not happy. During the ultrasound the baby was rolling and being really active and I just couldn't get in the emotions like I normally do.

When we got done at the ultrasound we picked our boys up from my mother in laws and went home. Well I was so stressed by the end because of everything and I laid down and tried to take a nap while he was awake ironing his work clothes. Well my kids started getting toys out and he woke me up bitching that I don't pay attention to them. So I got up and took them in the living room so they could play.

I then decided to make dinner, and when I was done making dinner he was sleeping so I woke him and said dinner was ready and he said he's not hungry and fell back to sleep.

After dinner I put both the boys to sleep and went and showered.

Anyways, I knew my husband got off at 4pm today but I asked him last night what time he was off and he said he didn't know.

Which to me sounds fishy, because I knew he knows when he's off.

And I messaged him and said "So the other day you said you were off at 4 today and when I asked you yesterday you said you didn't know. What's your plan?"

And all he said was "OK"

I probably should have left it at that but now I'm crying depressed and pregnant so I said "I know the only reason you haven't left me is because you don't want to end up on more child support you can tell you don't love me by the way you talk to me. By how annoyed you get by me, how everything I do is wrong to you. How everyone else is better than me."

His response? "Thats how you feel and see it I can't change it"

I'm seriously a wreck right now I'm so depressed and feel alone and just need someone to vent to...

Thank you all so much for all the advice ❤🙏

My husband came home acting like nothing even happened and even tried joking around to make me laugh. I told him it's not a joke and we need to seriously discuss everything but he kinda pushed it aside.

Of course I feel better but I know I'm asking myself how long will this last if we can't have a serious discussion.