Question or debate whichever

Jessica
My husband has been chewing me out all night because I want my mom and maybe (huge) maybe his mom in the delivery room. He's doing everything to bully me into just me and him. So my question is will you guys have anyone else in the room? Also if not what's the big deal to have family in the room! I'm in tears and super stressed out over this. It's a big deal to me because I've always envisioned having my mom in the room with me. He's threatened me every which way (non violent). I'm just distraught over this, am I overreacting?