Sleep Schedule

Mama’s, have you ever felt like you are to crazy about a schedule for sleep? I use the huckleberry app to track my daughters sleep and I am super strict about the schedule and sometimes wish I would just be a little flexible and more relaxed with it. My nephew is only 4 months older then my daughter and he could literally go to sleep any where but has to be rocked to sleep. My daughter has to be in her crib, in a pitch black room with a sound machine and I am a little envious of how my nephew can sleep anywhere no matter what is going on however my daughter can go to sleep completely on her own I just lay her down walk out and she’s asleep in 15 minutes or less, shes completely off a bottle and doesn’t use a pacifier so she’s a completely independent sleeper! I guess I just feel like I am so strict with the schedule that we don’t always get to do things we want to do like dinner with family birthday parties etc. Am I the only one that feels this way?!