I totally remember that feeling. I felt like struggling to conceive took a huge toll on our sex life. It started to feel like having sex was just a job we had to get done. If you need it, take a break from tracking everything. Just have sex when you’re feeling in the mood. TTC can be an all-consuming thing. It’s ok to take a month off once in a while and remind yourselves that you are still fulfilled by just the two of you and that if and when your baby comes, the love you already share will just continue to grow. Hang in there. You’re absolutely not alone I’m feeling this way, but try not to let it take total control of your relationship.

Are you using OPKs? I was getting so exhausted from BDing around the apps predicted ovulation, I literally slept SO much. The first month I used OPKs, we only had sex four times and I conceived. If you aren’t using them, I highly recommend the easy @ home brand!