I’ve been with my boyfriend just about five years now. Every time I talk about our future like marriage or having a child he changes the subject. Kind of makes me feel like he doesn’t love me or plan on being with me long. I could be wrong but he just goes I’m not answering cause that’s a dumb question. Am I being dramatic or am I allowed to have feelings and wonder what he wants in the future? He told me I need to have goals before we can get married, I have goals that I’m working on but just confused why I need goals to get married