Your lack of wetness could be for several reasons, your birth control could be drying you out, your lack of hydration, the lack of clitoral stimulation, that is what actually turns on the wetness down there, it could be any other medication that you’re taking, could be psychological, maybe stress or anxiety or depression or you’re sabotaging yourself thinking it’s gonna keep happening, maybe you just need to add a water-based lube, like Astro glide, nothing that heats up or is flavored, that is an infection waiting to happen. There’s no shame in needing the lube, you do what you Gotta do