I know it’s going to be on him but it’s driving me crazy.

So my husband goes back to work on the 8th. I have been telling him that he needs to start going to bed earlier instead of at 3 in the morning and sleeping till 1 or 2.

He tells me the only reason he stays up is so he can feed the baby at 3 am. I told him not to worry about it that I will wake up to feed him. I got to sleep around 8 or 9.

So I pretty much do his feedings all day which is fine I honestly don’t care. And I tell him just do his 11 pm feeding and I’ll do the rest. I just don’t know what to do anymore. He really needs to get back to at least a semi decent sleep schedule.

And yes a lot of this has to mainly do with my anxiety about it. I’m trying to not worry or be anxious about it cause it’s on him and not me.