My bf and I have been talking about living together. He has his own apartment and I stay often. I asked him if I can stay a lot throughout the week, so that way we can ease into me moving in completely and he said that would be fine.

However, he acts like I’m not allowed to be in the apartment by myself. Like, if he wants to go somewhere, he wants me to go with him, or if he has somewhere to go, he hints that I should go home.

But I’m like, “if I’m going to live here, I’m going to be here by myself sometimes!!”

I just don’t feel like he’s making it feel like my home. I feel unwanted. He always says that we are going to live together and wants me to move in. But I don’t feel comfortable at his apartment.

What should I do?