Ingrown bump

Hey ladies! I always get the same bump on my bikini line that has like 2-4 hairs in it.. has anyone gotten those before? Like a reoccurring spot they seem to get an ingrown? UGH! I just plucked the hairs out of it, and it always is tender! Give me some tips and tricks! And someone comfort me that you too have had a spot where you ALWAYS get a reoccurring spot with the same ingrown. god, i hate being a woman sometimes..