okay so last night my s/o and i tried anal for the first time. we were taking it really slow but he’s really big (i even bleed when we have sex sometimes because of his size) so it hurt extremely bad to the point where i wanted to cry. even though it was extremely lubricated. long story short when i went to the bathroom after sex i noticed i had blood on the toilet paper. The bleeding stopped but when i used the restroom it hurt so bad and started bleeding again. it’s really sore and hurts to sit. is this normal after trying anal sex or should i be worried