I’m seeing this new guy. We just started sleeping together and I’m pretty sure I’m not getting lubricated enough cause we need more foreplay. He hasn’t said anything but he wants to put on a condom half way through sex. We’ve had the std talk, have known each other a long time and I’m on birth control. He could want to put It on half way through for extra pregnancy precaution but i find that odd, just wear It to begin with. For some reason I feel this stigma with lube, like It means I’m not good. But sometimes It just takes time for us women to get there.